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Your Business Exists for One Reason: To Help You Fulfill Your Dreams and Desires, and to Build the Life You Deserve
How can I made such a brash statement? Because you're running a small business (by which I mean there are only a few stakeholders and you don't tell shares on the open market). If you work at a big company with shareholders, your job exists to make money for the company, directly or indirectly. Ultimately, it is to provide profit and increased value for the shareholders.
But as a small business owner, you're the stockholder. And, yes, you want to earn money. But you can earn money doing anything, especially in tech. You don't have to deal with clients, employees, vendors, payroll, and all the other chores that come with business ownership.
So, yeah, make money. But that's not why you're self-employed. It's not why your business exists.
Sadly most people cannot tell you what their dreams and desires are. And even those who can are often at a loss to tell you how their business advances that dream.
Way back in 2011, I committed to rebuilding my life and my business so they support each other to help me do three things: write more, speak more, and travel more. And I think those who know me would agree that I did just that.
I'm not saying it was easy - or that retooling your business to support your dreams will be easy, but it's sure worth a try! Here's something I'd like you to try in 2026: Sit down for fifteen minutes once a month and write down why your business exists and how it helps you fulfill your personal goals.
You can't say you don't have time! I'm talking about fifteen minutes per month. Make it a priority and do it.
It's actually a trick question. In order to answer that question, you need to know what you want in your personal life. YOU. Not what society says you should want. Not what your parents or your spouse or your friends want. When you dig deep and finally figure out the goals for your life, then you can start figuring out how that can drive the mission of your business.
If you really do this, you'll find that the answer is different every month. It will take some time to dig down deep enough to find out your ultimate goals. But once you do, a whole lot of other things will begin to fall into place.
You also need to be prepared for two things. First, you might not finish this task in twelve months. More quiet time always helps. And it's okay if you don't have "the" answer twelve months from now. You literally have the rest of your life.
Second, you might come to some startling conclusions. You might decide that some big things in your life don't really fit with the future you want to build. The same is true for operations inside your business. When you view the world from the lens of, "How does this help me fulfill my goals?" you have to be prepared to conclude that it doesn't.
For some things, you will be quite resistant to give up because they're part of who you are. Or who you were. But if they don't move you closer to personal happiness and fulfillment, then it might really be time to change your habits.
You've probably heard the saying, the best time to fire someone is the first time the thought crosses your mind. The say is true with habits that don't contribute to your personal goals, dreams, and desires.
The best time to drop a bad habit is the first time the thought crosses your mind.
Again, this is not easy. Giving up pieces of how you see yourself - and have seen yourself for decades - is hard work. But it is absolutely worth it.
If you haven't subscribed to my monthly RFS Newsletter, please do. And if you want some guidance on how to accomplish this transformation step by step, I recommend you add Relax Focus Succeed to your reading (or listening) list today.
Have a wonderful 2026. And if you think you could use some help retooling your business to support the life you want to live, email me at karl@karlpalachuk.com.
Best of luck and Happy New Year!
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